Saturday 24 March 2012

MESSAGE TO PONDER UPON......




A poor couple who lived in a small village in Pakistan. They had only one son. Gave him the best education.


Son graduates as an Engineer in the nearby city. Eventually, got married to a rich girl. Initially, they lived with his parents in the village. Soon the wife got tired of village life and persuaded the husband to move to the city leaving the old parents in the village.


As time went the husband seen an advert in the newspaper about a vacancy in Jeddah. He was successful and lived in Jeddah for years with his wife. Regularly he used to send money to parents.
Eventually with time he stopped and forgot about his parents ever existed.


Every year he made haj and immediately after that he used to see some1 telling him in a dream that his haj is not accepted.
One day he related story to a pious Aalim who advised him to go back to Pakistan to visit his parents. The man flew to Pakistan and reached the boundary of the village. Everything had changed.


He could not find his house. He asked a small boy about the whereabouts of so and so.


The little boy directed the man to a house and said :"In this house lives an old blind lady who lost her husband a few months ago. She has a son who migrated to Saudi Arabia years back and never came back again.
What an unfortunate man ?"Son enters the home and finds his mother on the bed. He tip-toed as not to wake her up. He hears the mother whispering or mumbling something.


He gets closer to hear her voice. This is what the mother was saying :


"Ya Allah ! I am now very old and blind. My husband just died. There is no mahram to lower me in my grave when I die. So please send my son to fullfill my last wish."


"This is the ending of a story where the DUAA of a mother is accepted.

10 Ways to Improve Your Marriage


•> Pray together.
•> Compliment your spouse daily. •> Change yourself instead of trying to change your spouse.
•> Lower your expectations.
... •> Learn to enjoy each others company.
•> Accept each other’s flaws.
•> Don’t take each other for granted.
•> Refuse to hold a grudge.
•> Forgive often.
•> Respect each other.

چھننکنے والے کو جواب دینا۔




ابوبکر بن ابی شیبہ، علی بن مسہر، ابن ابی لیلیٰ عیسیٰ ، عبدالرحمن بن ابی لیلیٰ، حضرت علی کرم اللہ وجہہ فرماتے ہیں کہ


رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے فرمایا


جب تم میں سے کسی کو چھینک آئے تو اسے الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ کہنا چاہئے


اور پاس والوں کو جواب میں يَرْحَمُکَ اللَّهُ کہنا چاہئے۔


پھر چھینکنے والے کو چاہئے کہ وہ ان کو جواب میں کہے۔


يَهْدِيکُمُ اللَّهُ وَيُصْلِحُ بَالَکُمْ


(کہ اللہ تمہیں راہ راست پر رکھے اور تمہارے مال کو درست فرمائے) ۔


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It was narrated from 'Ali that the Messenger of Allah(P.B.U.H) said: 


“If anyone of you sneezes, let him say: AI-Hamdu Lillah (praise is to Allah). 


Those around him should respond by saying: 


Yarhamuk-Allah (may Allah have mercy on you). 


And he should respond to them by saying: 


"Yahdikum Allahu wa yuslahu balakum 


(May Allah guide you and set right your state)." (Da'if)




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سنن ابن ماجہ:جلد سوم:حدیث نمبر 595


حدیث مرفوع مکررات 4

ARE YOU THANKFUL?


When passing through a mountain pass, a bedouin (villager) once came across an old man who was blind and who seemed to be afflicted with various ailments all over his body. It was clear that he was wasting away. He was even paralyzed and was constantly forced to remain in a seated position. The Bedouin could clearly hear him say, "All praise is for Allah, Who has kept me safe from ailments with which He has tested many among His creation; and He has indeed preferred me over many among those that He created."


"My brother!" exclaimed the bedouin. "What have you been saved from? By Allah, I think that you have been afflicted with every single kind of ailment!"


"Go away from me," said the old man, as he raised his head. "Do I not still have a tongue with which I can pronounce His Oneness, and with which I can remember Him every single moment? And do I not still have a heart with which I can know Him?"


These words of the old man were enough for the bedouin to repent to Allah for his sins and ask Him for forgiveness.


REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS IN MORE PROBLEM THAN YOU.


May ALLAH give us the ability to thank Him for the countless blessings which we keep looking beyond. Aameen

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