10 Ways to Improve Your Marriage

•> Pray together.
•> Compliment your spouse daily. •> Change yourself instead of trying to change your spouse.
•> Lower your expectations.
... •> Learn to enjoy each others company.
•> Accept each other’s flaws.
•> Don’t take each other for granted.
•> Refuse to hold a grudge.
•> Forgive often.
•> Respect each other.

چھننکنے والے کو جواب دینا۔

ابوبکر بن ابی شیبہ، علی بن مسہر، ابن ابی لیلیٰ عیسیٰ ، عبدالرحمن بن ابی لیلیٰ، حضرت علی کرم اللہ وجہہ فرماتے ہیں کہ


رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم نے فرمایا


جب تم میں سے کسی کو چھینک آئے تو اسے الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ کہنا چاہئے


اور پاس والوں کو جواب میں يَرْحَمُکَ اللَّهُ کہنا چاہئے۔


پھر چھینکنے والے کو چاہئے کہ وہ ان کو جواب میں کہے۔


يَهْدِيکُمُ اللَّهُ وَيُصْلِحُ بَالَکُمْ


(کہ اللہ تمہیں راہ راست پر رکھے اور تمہارے مال کو درست فرمائے) ۔


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It was narrated from 'Ali that the Messenger of Allah(P.B.U.H) said: 


“If anyone of you sneezes, let him say: AI-Hamdu Lillah (praise is to Allah). 


Those around him should respond by saying: 


Yarhamuk-Allah (may Allah have mercy on you). 


And he should respond to them by saying: 


"Yahdikum Allahu wa yuslahu balakum 


(May Allah guide you and set right your state)." (Da'if)




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سنن ابن ماجہ:جلد سوم:حدیث نمبر 595


حدیث مرفوع مکررات 4

ARE YOU THANKFUL?

When passing through a mountain pass, a bedouin (villager) once came across an old man who was blind and who seemed to be afflicted with various ailments all over his body. It was clear that he was wasting away. He was even paralyzed and was constantly forced to remain in a seated position. The Bedouin could clearly hear him say, "All praise is for Allah, Who has kept me safe from ailments with which He has tested many among His creation; and He has indeed preferred me over many among those that He created."


"My brother!" exclaimed the bedouin. "What have you been saved from? By Allah, I think that you have been afflicted with every single kind of ailment!"


"Go away from me," said the old man, as he raised his head. "Do I not still have a tongue with which I can pronounce His Oneness, and with which I can remember Him every single moment? And do I not still have a heart with which I can know Him?"


These words of the old man were enough for the bedouin to repent to Allah for his sins and ask Him for forgiveness.


REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE ELSE WHO IS IN MORE PROBLEM THAN YOU.


May ALLAH give us the ability to thank Him for the countless blessings which we keep looking beyond. Aameen

JummA Mubarak

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Jumma Mubarak A Beautiful Gift from Allah to Us

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QURB-E-ELAHI KE BAATAIN

1.kamo me tawakal
2.Guftgu me sadaqat
3.Salam me pehel
4.Inteqam me takheer
5.Neki me sabqat
6.Libas me sadgi o pakizgi
7.Takabur se duri
8.Ghusse se parhez
9.Gheebat se ijtinab
10.Logon se muhabat
11.Ghar walon se khush ikhlaqi
12.Nafs ki mukhalfat
13.Mazloom ki imdad
14.Gharibon ki dil joi
15.Beemar ki ayadat
16.Naik Logon ki sohbat
17.Wada ki wafa
18.Waldain ka ehtiram
19.Mehman nawazi
20.Maaf kr dena