شوہر کا بیوی پر کیا حق ہے ؟؟؟

معاویہ بن حیدۃ رضي اللہ تعالی عنہ بیان کرتے ہيں کہ میں نے رسول اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم سے پوچھا :


اے اللہ تعالی کے رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ہم پر کسی ایک کی بیوی کا حق ہم پر کیا ہے ؟


نبی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم نے فرمایا :


جب تم خود کھاؤ تو اسے بھی کھلاؤ ، اورجب خود لباس پہنو تو اسے بھی پہناؤ ، اوراس کے چہرے کو بدصورت نہ کہو اورچہرے پر نہ مارو ۔


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12 Favorite foods of Prophet Muhammad (saw) and Their advantages...(Imaan-tehreem)

1. Barley: 
Good in fever, while use in a soup form.


2. Dates: 
The Prophet (SAW) said that a house without dates has no food. It should also be eaten at the time of childbirth.


3. Figs: 
It is a fruit from paradise and a cure for piles.


4. Grapes: 
The Prophet (SAW) was very fond of grapes – it purifies the blood, provides vigour and health, strengthens the kidneys and clears the bowels.


5. Honey: 
Considered the best remedy for diarrhoea when mixed in hot water. It is the food of foods, drink of drinks and drug of drugs. It is used for creating appetite, strengthening the stomach, eliminating phlegm; as a meat preservative, hair conditioner, eye soother and mouthwash. It is extremely beneficial in the morning in warm water.


6. Melon: 
The Prophet (SAW) said: ‘None of your women who are pregnant and eat of water melon will fail to produce off spring that is good in countenance and good in character.’


7. Milk: 
The Prophet (SAW) said that milk wipes away heat from the heart just as the finger wipes away sweat from the brow. It strengthens the back, improved the brain, renews vision and drives away forgetfulness.


8. Mushroom: 
The Prophet (SAW) said that mushroom is a good cure for the eyes; it also serves as a form of birth control and arrests paralysis.


9. Olive Oil
Excellent treatment for skin and hair, delays old age, and treats inflammation of the stomach.


10. Pomegranate: 
The Prophet (SAW) said it cleanses you of Satan and evil aspirations for 40 days.


11. Vinegar: 
A food Prophet Muhammad (SAW) used to eat with olive oil. [That's now a fashion in elite Italian Restaurants]


12. Water:
The Prophet (SAW) said the best drink in this world is water, when you are 
thirsty drink it by sips and not gulps, gulping produces sickness of the liver.




Narrated Sahl bin Sad: We used to be happy on Fridays, for there was an old lady who used to pull out the roots of Silq and put it in a cooking pot with some barley. When we had finished the prayer, we would visit her and she would present that dish before us. So we used to be happy on Fridays because of that, and we never used to take our meals or have a mid-day nap except after the Friday prayer. By Allah, that meal contained no fat. ( Sahih Bukhari book 65 295)


Narrated 'Aisha : The Prophet (pbuh) died when we had satisfied our hunger with the two black things, i.e. dates and water. ( Sahih Bukhari Book 65 295)


Narrated 'Aisha: Allah's Apostle(pbuh) used to love sweet edible things and honey. 
( Sahih Bukhari Book 65 342) 

A little boy asked his mother

A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?"


"Because I need to" she said.


"I don't understand," he said.


His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."


Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"


"All women cry for no reason," his dad answered carelessly.


The little boy, still wondering why women cry, finally asked the old wise shaikh (scholar). "He surely knows the answer", he thought. "Ya Shaikh! Why do women cry so easily?"


The Shaikh answered:


"When ALLAH made the woman she had to be made so special. He made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. He gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes from her children. He gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. He gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child hurts her very badly. He gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. He gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And lastly, He gave her a tear.


This is hers and only hers exclusively to use whenever she needs it. She needs no reason, no explanation, its hers."


"You see my son, the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the beauty of her face, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."


The little boy got the answer and never asked the question again ~

Did you ever stop for a while and asked yourself?

Did you ever stop for a while and asked yourself,


what is going to happen to me the first night in my grave ?


Think about the moment your body is being washed and prepared to your grave


Think about the day people will be carrying you to your grave


And your families crying ...think about the moment you are put in your grave


Just imagine ...yourself in your grave
Down there in that dark hole
Alone
Its too Dark you cry for help
But.........
It is too narrow your bones are squashed
You regret missing 5 prayers ,you regret listening music ,you regret not wearing Hijab
You regret ignoring Allah 's orders
But no ESCAPE ......
You alone with your deeds
No money ,no jewelries, Only your deeds


May Allah (subhanahu wa ta'ala) protect us all from the punishment of the grave.Ameen

سُبْحَآن الله..,•¬------ღ◦˚°.

سُبْحَآن الله..,•¬------ღ◦˚°.
و الحَمْدُ لله..,•¬------ღ◦˚°..
و لا اله الا الله ..,•¬------ღ◦˚°..
و اللهُ أكْبَرْ ..,•¬------ღ◦˚°..
و لا حَوْلَ و لا قُوَةَ إلا بِالله..,•¬------ღ◦˚°..
لآ إلـ‗__‗ـه إلآ اللـ‗__‗ـه محمد رسول الله
أڛتغفر آللـﮧه آلذي لـآإ إلـﮧه إلـآإ هۈآلحي آلقيۈم ۈأتوب إليـﮧ

THE LEPER, BALD AND BLIND MAN

Hazrat Abu Hurairah (R.A.) relates that he heard the holy Prophet (Peace be upon him) say, Allah tested three persons from amongst Bani Israel, a leper, a bald headed man and a blind person. An angel was sent down to them in the form of a human being. 


He came to the leper and asked, “What is the thing you like the best?”, “a fine colour, neat skin and cure from this disease for which people hate me.” Came the reply. The angel ran his head over his body, his disease vanished and his body got a fine colour. Then the angel asked him what property he would like the best? The man said, “Camels or cows,” (the writer is doubtful). The man was given a she camel ten months pregnant and the angel said, “May Allah bless it for thee.”


Then the angel went to the bald headed man and asked the same. The man replied, “Beautiful hair and cure for the ailment, for which people hate me.” The angel ran his hand over his head and his disease was cured leaving him with beautiful hair. Then the angel asked him what property he would like the best? The man replied, “A cow.” Thus he was given a cow carrying a calf and the angel said, “May Allah bless it for thee.”


Then the angel came to the man that was blind and asked the same. He asked that Allah restore his sight so that he may see the people around him. The angel ran his hands over his eyes and his sight was restored. Then the angel asked him what property he would like the best? The man replied, “A goat.” Thus he was given a she goat carrying a kid.


These animals in due course gave birth to their kids multiplying very soon so that one had a valley full of cows, bulls and a third of the valley full of goats. 


After some time the angel visited the leper in his original form and said to him, “I am a poor and needy person, having spent all my means of sustenance in the course of my journey, I beg you, in the name of Allah, who has given you a decent colour and a neat skin and much wealth, to furnish me with a camel to enable me to complete my journey.” The man expressed his inability to oblige the angel and said, “I have many obligations to fufill. The angel said, “It appears as if I have seen you before. Are you not a leper, who shunned people and was poor, whom Allah enriched? The man said, “I have inherited this property from my ancestors. The angel said, “If you are speaking a lie, may Allah return you to the condition in which you were.”


This unfortunately occurred in the same manner with the bald man. Then the angel came to the man who was blind man repeating his request once more. The man said, “Indeed I was blind and Allah restored my eye sight. You may take what you will and leave what you like. By Allah I will not refuse you anything you may wish to take in the name of Allah, the Lord of honour and glory.


The angel said, “Keep all you have. All three of you were being tried. Allah is indeed pleased with you and is angry with your companions.” (Sahih Bukhari: Volume 4, Book 56, Number 670) 


May ALLAH make us be thankful for what HE has bestowed and grant us the ability to SPEND in charity for the Pleasure of ALLAH to those that are in NEED. Aameen

اپنی قیمت کا اندازہ لگائیے

ايک چھوٹا سا لڑكا دكان ميں داخل ہوكر كونے ميں لگے ٹيليفون كيبن كی طرف بڑھا۔
ٹيليفون ميں سكے ڈالنا تو اُس كيلئے ايک اچھا خاصا مسئلہ تھا ہی، بات كرنے كيلئے تو اُسے باقاعده سٹول پر كھڑا ہی ہونا پڑا۔


دكاندار كيلئے يہ منظر كافی متعجب کن تھا، اُس سے رہا نہ گيا اور لڑكے كی گفتگو سننے كيلئے اس نے اپنے كان اُدھر لگا ديئے۔


لڑكا کسی عورت سے مخاطب تھا اور اس سے کہہ رہا تھا: “ميڈم، آپ مجھے اپنے باغيچے كی صفائی ستھاائی اور ديكھ بھال كيلئے ملازم ركھ لیجئے”.


جبکہ عورت كا جواب تھاكہ”فی الحال تو اُس كے پاس اس كام كيلئے ايک ملازم ہے”.


لڑكے نے اِصرار كرتے ہوئے اُس عورت سے كہا كہ “ميڈم! ميں آپكا كام آپكے موجوده ملازم سے آدھی اُجرت پر كرنے كيلئے تيار ہوں”۔


اُس عورت نے جواب دیا كہ وه اپنے ملازم سے بالكل راضی ہے اور كسی قيمت پر بھی اُسے تبديل نہيں كرنا چاہتی”۔


اب لڑكا باقاعده التجاء پر ہی اُتر آيا اور عاجزی سے بولا كہ: “ميڈم، ميں باغيچے كے كام كے علاوہ آپکے گھر كے سامنے والے گزرگاہ اور فٹ پاتھ كی بھی صفائی کرونگا اور آپكے باغيچے كو فلوريڈا پام بيچ كا سب سے خوبصورت باغيچہ بنا دونگا”.


اور اِس بار بھی اُس عورت كا جواب نفی ميں تھا۔ لڑكے كے چہرے پر ايک مسكراہٹ آئی اور اُس نے فون بند كر ديا۔


دكاندار جو يہ ساری گفتگو سن رہا تھا اُس سے رہا نہ گیا اور وہ لڑكے كی طرف بڑھا اور اُس سے كہا: ميں تمہارى اعلٰی ہمتی کی داد ديتا ہوں، اور تمہاری لگن، مثبت سوچوں اور اُمنگوں كا احترام كرتا ہوں، ميں چاہتا ہوں كہ تم ميری اس دكان پر كام كرو”


لڑكے نے دكاندار كو كہا:”آپ كی پیشکش كا بہت شكريہ ، مگر مجھے كام نہيں چاہيئے، ميں تو صرف اِس بات كی تصديق كرنا چاہ رہا تھا كہ ميں آجكل جو كام كر رہا ہوں كيا اُس كا معيار قابلِ قبول بھی ہے يا نہيں؟
اور ميں اِسی عورت كے پاس ہی ملازم ہوں جِس كے ساتھ ميں ٹيليفون پر گفتگو كر رہا تھا”




اگر آپكو اپنے شخصیت / کردار اور كام كے معيار پر بھروسہ ہے تو پھر اُٹھائيے ٹيليفون اور پركھيئے اپنے آپكو! ( مطلب یہ کہ اپنا احتساب کیجئے ! اور جہاں کمی ہو اسے ٹھیک کرنے کی کوشش کیجئے ! )