FOUR DOS AND DONTS FOR WOMEN

FOUR DOS AND DONTS FOR WOMEN

DOS

1: Be jolly and you shall enter your husband’s heart from the widest of its gates because the man doesn’t like the depressed and gloomy woman and he loves the woman who minimizes problems and the stresses of life. And constantly say “Allaah is Kareem” so your heart shall be relaxed.

2: Be patient because patience is the key to relief, and if you see in your husband that which doesn’t please you, pick the appropriate time to talk and avoid the times when he is tired and avoid solving the conflict through SMS or MMS. 

3: Be satisfied with little because it has been said about being satisfied with little that it is a treasure that never ends. Do not insist on too many extra things if he cannot afford it because the one who has the moon is not in need of the stars. 

4: Take care of your appearance and decorate yourself for him because most women only decorate themselves when they are going out and that is a mistake because your husband takes precedence to be decorated for. And do not make your taking care of the house and the kids a reason to neglect your outward appearance because inserting happiness into the heart of the husband is a rewardable act.

DONTS

1: Do not be the type that throws things in his face because the male doesn’t like the woman who throws things in his face and constantly mentions “I sacrificed for you, I did such and such for you…” and if you had sacrificed and been patient for the sake of Allaah then you have the reward, in shaa’ Allaah.

2: Do not be a chatterbox and babble about things that have no benefit in them and avoid obscure questions that are difficult to answer, and if you see your husband speaks little, then that might be because there is something on his mind. 

3: Do not exaggerate in your jealousy for him because love is not measured by the degree of jealousy you have for him. Severe jealousy suffocates the man and it might lead to problems that might lead to divorce. Rather feel protective of his Religion as much as the amount of your love for him.

4: Do not raise your voice to your husband and hurt him with speech and actions even if he fell short towards you and don’t forget that the Messenger of Allaah, Sallallaahu ^alayhi wa sallam, said (what means) “The woman does not harm her husband in the dunyaa except that his wife from among the Hoor Al-^Een says, ‘Do not harm him, may Allaah destroy you. Indeed he is with you temporarily and soon he will be with us’.” 

In conclusion, my sister, always remember the saying of the Prophet, Sallallaahu ^alayhi wa sallam, “The dunyaa is a mataa^ and the best mataa^ of the dunyaa is the pious woman”. 

The dunyaa will not remain forever and the victorious one will triumph with Paradise, so make your husband an avenue for you to reach Paradise.

اچھی باتیں Achi Batain

اچھی باتیں  Achi Batain

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Woman who had a faithful dog

There is a story of a woman who had a faithful dog. This dog was so faithful that the woman could leave her baby with it and go out to attend other matters. She always returned to find the child soundly asleep with the dog faithfully watching over him. 

One day something tragic happened. The woman as usual, left the baby in the “hands” of this faithful dog and went out shopping.When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty scene. There was a total mess. The baby’s cot was dismantled and his nappies and clothes torn to shreds with bloodstains all over the bedroom where she had left the child and the dog. Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the baby. 

Presently, she saw the faithful dog emerging from the under the bed. It was covered with blood and licking its mouth as it had just finished a delicious meal. The woman went berserk and assumed that the dog had devoured her baby. Without much thought she clubbed the dog to death. 

As she continued searching for the “remains” of her child, she beheld another scene. Close to the bed was the baby who, although lying on bare floor, was safe. And under the bed the carcass of a jackal torn to pieces in what must have been a fierce battle between it and the dog which was now dead. 

Then the reality hit the woman who now began to understand what took place in her absence. The dog fought to protect the baby from the ravenous jackal. It was too late for her now to make amends because in her impatience and anger, she had killed the faithful dog. A dog deserving praise and adoration that fought to save the life of her dear beloved child received death in return. 

Moral:

How often have we misjudged people and torn them to shreds with harsh words and even with physical assault before we have had time to evaluate the situation? It is called the SIN OF PRESUMPTION. Presuming things are one way without taking the trouble to find out exactly what the situation really is. A little patience can drastically reduce major lifelong errors.

The Afghan

The Afghan who hasn’t missed prayer at the Prophet’s Mosque for 37 years, Haji Muhammad has become very popular in Madinah because for a quarter of a century he has appeared on Saudi TV wearing the same black turban while standing on the right side of the first line behind the imam.

He told Makkah daily that he arrived in the Kingdom when he was 19.

He has been working as a plumber for 37 years and only traveled once to Afghanistan.

He said: “I’ve always made sure I perform all prayers in the Prophet’s Mosque since I was a young man.

“I love picking up the copies of the Holy Qur’an from visitors and putting them back in their cabinets.”

Haji Muhammad has made friends with visitors from outside the country who have been impressed with how devoted he is in performing all prayers in the mosque and at the same place.

Some of them have seen him wearing the same black turban at the same spot every year they visited Madinah.

“When I worked for my sponsor, I told him from the start that I didn’t want to miss any prayer at the mosque and that in Ramadan I won’t work because I’ll be in the mosque all the time,” he said.

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A man argues that wine should be halal

A man argues that wine should be halal

 
A man came to Iyas Ibn Mu'awiyah, a Muslim judge famous for his wisdom, and the following conversation took place between them:
Man: What is the Islamic ruling regarding wine?
Judge: It is Haram (Forbidden).
Man: How about water?
Judge: It is Halal (Permissible).
Man: How about dates and grapes? Judge: They are Halal.
Man: Why is it that all these ingredients are Halal, and yet when you combine them, they become Haram?
The judge looked at the man and said: If I hit you with this handful of dirt, do you think it would hurt you?
Man: It would not.
Judge: How about if I hit you with this handful of straw?
Man: It would not hurt me.
Judge: How about a handful of water?
Man: It surely would not hurt me. Judge: How about if I mix them, and let them dry to become a brick, and then hit you with it, would it hurt you?
Man: It would hurt me and might even kill me!
Judge: The same reasoning applies to what you asked me!!

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