Tuesday 9 April 2013

CHANGE

Once upon a time, there was a king who ruled a prosperous country. One day, he went for a trip to some distant areas of his country.


When he returned to his palace, he complained that his feet were very painful, because it was the first time that he went for such a long trip, and the road that he went through was very rough and stony.

He then ordered his people to cover every road of the entire country with leather. Definitely, this would need thousands of cows' skin, and would cost a huge amount of money.

Then one of his wise servant dared himself to tell the king, "Why do you have to spend that unnecessary amount of money? Why don't you just cut a little piece of leather to cover your feet ?" The king was surprised, but he later agreed to his suggestion, to make a "shoe" for himself.

Moral of the story:
To make this world a happier place for Ý♡ũ to live in ,requires you to change yourself - your heart, your mindset & ur attitude- Not the entire world.

Change ALWAYS begins with Ý♡ũ- not ur spouse,ur parent,ur in-laws ,ur neighbour or that sumone givng u a hard time.

One must bear in mind everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself. Unless we change ourselves first then we can change those near to us and expand further, Change will not come if we wait for some other person, or if we wait for some other time. We are the ones we’ve been waiting for. We are the change that we seek. Consider how hard it is to change yourself and you’ll understand what little chance you have in trying to change others.

“Truly, اَللَّهُ عَزَّوَجَل does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (Quran 13:11).



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POTATOES

"A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game. The kindergarten teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes. Each potato will be given a name of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates. So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated.
Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes. 

The kindergarten teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for one week. Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended.

The kindergarten teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go. Then the kindergarten teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game.

The kindergarten teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just one week, can you imagine what it is like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your lifetime?"


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Saturday 6 April 2013

Sisters Avoid Uploading Photos On Facebook

Please pay your attention on this message…

A story which I watched forced me to write this article to save our sisters
Ok this is the story, 
a TRUE story…

A girl was shocked to hear from one of her relatives who lives in abroad ,
that a naked photo of her has been published in a magazine in the country where his relative lived.

She was so shocked and complained in the local police station as she had never taken such a photograph.

In the police investigations it was found that it is the work of a man.

Well, this is what the man had done.

He goes into public places and takes photos of girls (through the camera that has been fixed in his pen) and fixes the faces of them to the naked photos of celebrities and sells them.

Now sisters, just think ….

You are uploading your beautiful photos to the face book,
What if someone steals it and edit and sell it????
To whom will you blame???
For the man who did this???
By blaming or punishing him could you get your lost possession?

Dear sisters,
You are beautiful, and you are so precious.
Yes that is why the one who created you asked you to save yourself from the diseased eyes.

After reading this some wise sisters will remove their photos.
Are you one among them?
Or will shaytaan stop you?

Think and Decide…

Share If you care!!

Note - This message is shared to warn our sisters.
not to blame anyone and this is a general message.

Share if you care!!!



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What Is Marriage In Islamic Law?

Introduction:
Considered juristically, marriage in islam is a contract and not a sacrament. There are three aspects of marriage in Islamic Law which are necesssary to understand the institution of marriage as a whole. It is contract and not sacrament. It has three features,

  1. There can be no marriage without consent.
  2. And in a contract provisions in made for its breach, the various kinds of dissolution by acts of parties or by operation of law.
  3. Terms of marriage contract are within legal limits capable of being altered to suit individual case.
In Islam a definite high school status to women is given after marriage and there are restrictions on unlimited polygamy and allowed controlled polygamy.

Definition:
"Marriage is religious legal contract that regularizes sexual relationship between men and women, established the linage of their progeny and created civil rights and obligations between them, which has for its object protection and legalization of children"

Object As Cited By Ameer Ali:
Marriage is an institution ordained for the protection of society and in order to human beings may guard themselves from foulness and unchastity and legalization of children
Saying of HOLY PROPHET (PBUH):
"THE MAN WHO DOES NOT MARRY IS NOT ONE OF MY FOLLOWERS"

Extract From Quran:
"BELIEVERS DENY NOT TO YOURSELF THE PLEASURES WHICH GOD HAS DECLARED LAWFUL"

Nature Of Marriage:
In Islam marriage is a civil contract.





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Four Simple Ways to Live a Happy Life


Here are 4 simple ways to live a happy life,
hope these will work out for u and ur relationship;
1: Make peace with ur past so it doesnt spoil ur present.
2: Time heals almost everything, so be patient in every situation.
3: Accept urself.
4: Dont compare ur life with others, you have no idea what their journey is all about..



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Pakistani Awam Ki Mushkilat

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